In a day when the government wants to raise our children beginning at ever younger years, it is time the church formally speaks out as to the culturally appropriate posture of the women as those who nurture our children while in the home and of the blessings of the home and the family.
Butker’s admonishment was to embrace the responsibilities inherent in their gender roles and indicted society’s obsession with career over family. Addressing both men and women, he said:
How many of you are sitting here now about to cross this stage and are thinking about all the promotions and titles you are going to get in your career? Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.
He said this to the women graduating:
I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you. Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother. I’m beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it cannot be overstated that all of my success is made possible because a girl I met in band class back in middle school would convert to the faith, become my wife, and embrace one of the most important titles of all: homemaker.
He then urged the men to embrace their vital role as the leader of their household:
To the gentlemen here today, part of what plagues society is this lie that has been told to you that men are not necessary in the home or in our communities. As men, we set the tone of the culture, and when that is absent, disorder, dysfunction, and chaos set in. This absence of men in the home is what plays a large role in the violence we see all around the nation. Be unapologetic in your masculinity, fighting against the cultural emasculation of men. Do hard things. Never settle for what is easy.
Read the entire speech here. Watch him give the speech here.
Harrison Butker made one more thing clear: Silence is Sin! |